College counselors and students' heart to heart talk is the main way to understandstudents' ideological trend and solve their learning and life problems. It is also an important way to improve the work efficiency of counselors，and also an important means to carry out ideological and political education for college students. The counselors talk talk work situation，according to the students' work experience，with the theory of positive psychology，behavior therapy，psychology doctrine in the Satir family therapy model，short focus therapy，narrative therapy andpsychology-cal counseling techniques，summarizes the five talk “counselor conversation effective”，is helpful to improve the scientific and the effectiveness of the counselors to work，let the instructor truly become the healthy growth of the students on the mentor and friend.As this method has a good effect in the promotion of school，it has been used as the talk training course for the training class of College Counselors in Hunan province.