With the rapid progress of the urbanization process，many “country to residence” community emerge. The original living environment，lifestyle and values have undergone great changes，So that it is difficult for the elderly to integrate into the new community as soon as possible，resulting in a social adaptation dilemma. The questionnaire survey revealed that the problems were mainly related to the alienation of neighborhood，the lack of leisure and entertainment interaction，the lack of spiritual comfort，the adaptability of living environment and the identity crisis. In view of the above problems，we should expand the public space of “country to residence” and strengthen the social interaction of the elderly. Improve the spirit support system of the elderly to enhance the quality of spiritual life. Clear the identity attribution the elderly in “country to residence” community，resolve identity crisis. So to improve the well-being index of the elderly in “country to residence” community，thereby promote the harmony and stability of the family，community and social harmony and stability.