残障者婚配难,是残障者长期以来面临的重要问题。根据《2007·中国残疾人婚姻家庭的现状及对策研究调查》,文化程度影响残障者婚姻生活的稳定性与质量。不同性别的残障者之间存在巨大的生理与心理差异,个体成长环境亦有所不同,因而在婚恋中面对的问题不尽相同。中国“男尊女卑”思想仍旧顽固,在主流婚姻观念下,残障女性面临双重歧视。尽管残障经验通常会掩盖残障者的性别经验,但已经有诸多研究表明,性别因素对残障者的生活有着极大影响。笔者从自身视障经验出发,结合时下“大龄剩女”这一热点话题,选取十名学历程度在大学本科及以上,在视障群体中属于高学历的视障单身女性,通过焦点小组与个案访谈的方法,从内心的冲突、情感的需求、现实的挑战等多方面出发,简析单身视障女性在婚恋观形成过程中的心理特点,探索其面临的心理困境,为进一步展开视障女性婚恋问题研究做出贡献。
<<Persons with disabilities in China have been facing the difficulty in finding a getting married is an important issue for the persons with a disability which they have been faced with for a long time. According to Investigation on the Current Situation and Countermeasure of the Marriage and Family of Chinese persons with a disability in 2007,the degree of education affects the stability and quality of the marriage of persons with a disability. Moreover,as the physiological and psychological differences existing in different categories of disabilities are great and individual growth environment is also different,the problems they are faced with in their love and marriage are not the same as well. In China,the thought of “men are superior to women” is still ingrained. In this case,women with a disability are faced with double discrimination in the mainstream marriage concept. Despite their gender experience is usually covered up by the disability experience,many studies have shown that gender makes a great impact on the life of persons with a disability. Based on the author’s own experience with low vision and combined with the hot topic of “elder women”,I select ten single women with low vision and high education which is bachelor degree or above in the group of persons with low vision. By means of focus group and case interview,starting from inner conflict,emotional needs and urgent reality,I briefly analyze the psychological characteristics of single women with low vision in the forming process of their love and marriage concept and explore their psychological predicament they are faced with,so as to make a contribution to a further expansion of the marriage problem of women with low vision.
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