China has gradually stepped into a deep aging society from aging society，and the digital dilemma of the elderly has become increasingly prominent. Under the background of the integration of aging and digitalization，the living conditions of the elderly need urgent attention. The project team investigated the digital living conditions of the elderly in Xiamen through online questionnaires，and drew a conclusion through data analysis on the survival status portrait of the elderly population：China’s silver haired economy has a promising prospect，the network contact of the elderly is relatively popular，but the gap between urban and rural areas is still obvious，the digital dilemma of the rural elderly is significant，and the middle-aged and elderly Internet users have long faced privacy security，operational difficulties，network dependence and other issues. Improving the digital living conditions of the elderly requires the cooperation of families，industries and society. With digital feedback，we can help the elderly to upgrade their knowledge，optimize services，stimulate the economic vitality of silver haired groups，strengthen supervision and ensure the network security of elderly users.