There are two forms of residence by wife in Tujia Minority Ethnic：Recruited son-in-law and Family Strategy. The former existed in Tujia Minority Ethnic alonely before 90’s in 20th century；the two forms have coexisted after 90’s in 20th century. In Recruited son-in-law form，Tremendous changes have taken place on the amount，states and Conditions of the son-in-law. In the family Strategy form，the young people take great importance to the earnings of marriage，and set up the equal gender relations.